What is Great Sex for Women?

In one of my workshop, we asked women to come together and discuss the ingredients of making a sex experience GREAT for women. They discussed for an hour and came up with a long list. We shared that with men and they all were thrilled and surprised.  

So here is this list that you can enjoy. Whether you are a man or woman this would light some part of your sexual experience.

  • When men takes time to connect and exchange verbal appreciation.
  • Eye contact throughout the love making is a must for women to have great sex.
  • When men is freely expresses his emotion and very playful.
  • When we stops in between and feel each other what’s really going for both of us.
  • When men also have capacity to receive from women.
  • No boundaries, losing myself into the pleasure.
  • When I surrender and feel free.
  • Exploring new parts of me, new sensations, new feelings each time when we move into a new wave of energy.
  • There is equal time to go wild and melting with each other.
  • Masculine presence but with sensitivity.
  • Caress face, hair and back of ears.
  • When he penetrate me he should be moving like a surfer on the tide of the ocean. Sensing the rise and fall of my energy and mood and adept to it.
  • Allow myself to be vulnerable and receive.
  • Prepare a week before through messages, roses etc….
  • Fucking vs lovemaking both rhythms are good.
  • Full presence and respectful of my feelings.
  • Very flexible and lot of patience.
  • He makes me feel beautiful like a goddess, say affirmations while making love.


After reading this, you may feel a call to be part of this circle in which we learn, share, educate and inform each other from our own lived experience on the subject of Sex, Love and Intimacy. Check out our calendar for SEX TO SUPERCONSCIOUSNESS workshop.